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7 Surprising Truths About Sex You Probably Didn’t Know | Biblical Perspective

Stonepoint Community Church

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The world has plenty to say about sex—but is it true? Society tells us that sex is casual, just physical, and all about personal pleasure. But what if sex is much deeper than that?


God created sex, and when seen through His lens, it becomes powerful, purposeful, and sacred. In this blog, we’re breaking down seven surprising things God actually says about sex.


1. Sex Is Designed and Governed by God 🙏

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24


Sex isn’t something the world invented—it’s something God created with purpose and design. The enemy distorts sex, making it seem shameful or casual, but in reality, it is a sacred act that creates unity in marriage.


2. Sex in Marriage Is a Gift, Not a Reward 🎁

“The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3 (NLT)


A healthy marriage involves mutual love, care, and intimacy. Scripture teaches that spouses should give themselves to each other—not as a reward, but as a vital part of marriage. Withholding intimacy out of manipulation or resentment can create division and open the door for temptation.


3. Sex with Your Spouse Is More Important Than Your Job 💼🚫

“When a man has taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war or be charged with any business; he shall be free at home one year and bring happiness to his wife.” – Deuteronomy 24:5


God values the intimacy and connection between a husband and wife so much that He commanded newlyweds to prioritize their marriage over work and responsibilities for an entire year! This shows us that marriage should never take a backseat to career ambitions.


4. Sex Is a Spiritual Act, Not Just Physical

“There is more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact.” – 1 Corinthians 6:16 (MSG)


Sex isn’t just physical—it has a profound spiritual impact. Every time two people become one, the connection goes beyond the body. That’s why casual sex often leaves people feeling empty and broken, while God-ordained intimacy brings unity and wholeness.


5. Romance Is the Language of Desire ❤️🔥

“Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth… Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love.” – Proverbs 5:18-19


Desire isn’t just about sex—it’s about intentional pursuit. Romance is a key part of a thriving marriage. Keeping passion alive requires effort, communication, and acts of love that remind your spouse they are wanted and cherished.


6. You Can Be Creative—Within God’s Boundaries 🎨✅

“Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” – Hebrews 13:4


God gives couples freedom within marriage to enjoy intimacy in a way that honors and satisfies both partners. However, He sets clear boundaries—sex outside of marriage or in adulterous relationships brings destruction, not fulfillment.


7. Adultery Destroys the Soul 💔🚨

“But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.” – Proverbs 6:32


Cheating isn’t just a betrayal—it’s self-destruction. Adultery harms more than a marriage; it damages the soul, leading to pain, loss, and brokenness. God calls us to protect our relationships by walking in integrity and faithfulness.


Final Thought 💭

God’s Way Is Always Better

Sex is a gift from God, meant for joy, unity, and intimacy within marriage. When we align with His design, we experience true fulfillment.

 

💬 What surprised you the most from this list? Let us know in the comments!


📢 Join us Feb 16th, 2025 for “The Elephant in the Bedroom: ELLIE – An Exposé” 🐘🎞️—a powerful relationship series tackling the unspoken issues in marriage and intimacy!



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