
WAR OF THE ROSES
ELEPHANT IN THE BEDROOM
He Said, She Said, God Said
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WHAT IS THE ELEPHANT IN THE BEDROOM?
There’s a war going on—in bedrooms, in marriages, in the hearts of men and women who love each other but don’t understand each other. Elephant in the Bedroom is not your typical relationship series. It’s a head-on collision with the real issues no one wants to confront: emotional withdrawal, sexual tension, silent resentment, spiritual confusion, and mismatched expectations.
Pastors Gene and Shana Herndon take the stage—one message at a time—to expose the hidden elephants wrecking relationships and reveal God’s divine design for love, order, and intimacy. It’s real. It’s raw. It’s exactly what your relationship needs before another year goes by in silence.
TENSION
The silence, the distance, the same old fights—you know something’s not right.
REBUILD
Learn how to handle conflict, reconnect, and grow stronger—together.
PEACE
With God’s help, your relationship can heal. It’s not too late to find love again.

Want to Catch Up? 🎥
Watch the full YouTube playlists from past Elephant in the Bedroom series and go deeper into what started it all.
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GO DEEPER WITH THE BOOK
Do you feel miles apart, even though you sleep inches away? Do you feel like something is missing in your relationship? Or do you just want to make your marriage epic (legendary)! You shouldn’t have to figure it out alone.
Adapted from a wildly popular series of sermons on relationships, “The Elephant In The Bedroom” is the biblical guide that gets real and raw as it tackles the tough issues that married and single people face in relationships.

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